asked for my number never called?
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asked for my number never called?
| Sat, 10-14-2006 - 4:20am |
hey all, this OLD is still very new to me. met a guy online, we emailed a bit, IM'd....he told me he wanted to chat on the phone and asked for my number. I gave it to him and two days later he hadn't called. saw he looked at my profile again so i dropped him an email just saying "just dropping by to say hi". he told me he's really sorry he hadn't called yet, had a crazy day had to go out of state didn't get back till late last night and he would call me later in the week. I told him no prob, call when he has a chance. that was 2 days ago. anyway, still nothing. should i just ignore him now? how long after people ask for your number do they usually use it? and would he send me an email saying he's sorry he hadn't called me yet he was out of town and he would call me later this week if he really wasn't going to? I see that he has been online a bunch since he last told me that. just asking because with this particular site i know it can be overwhelming and I get inundated with people contacting me, so people get lost in the mix. I was wondering if I should send another email just saying hey or at this point just forget it and let him contact me?

I would just forget it. If he calls, he calls, but I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you. I'm sure if you sent him another email he'd just give you another excuse and he still wouldn't call. And yes, definitely people will give you the song and dance about why they haven't called and promise to call and then not do so. It's like they can't stand to have you think of them as a bad guy, so they will respond when you prod them, but then they won't follow through.
Sheri
Eh, no need to feel foolish. Just don't be surprised if he responds to your email but still doesn't call. But he might call too...you never know. Just don't count on it!
Sheri