Asks for loan after a few dates

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Registered: 01-27-2005
Asks for loan after a few dates
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Fri, 11-11-2005 - 3:17pm

Question for you guys.

My friend went on 3 dates with someone, then the girl asks to borrow money. How would you guys feel about this? What would you do? My friend really liked this person but now they are feeling strange that they were asked to borrow money after 3 dates.

Any input would be appreciated..

GM

We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2004
Mon, 11-14-2005 - 7:20pm

Now I've heard everything.

Tracy

p.s. Check-N-Go

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2005
Mon, 11-14-2005 - 7:54pm
So no guy was involved? Not that it matters. Still the same answer.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2005
Mon, 11-14-2005 - 8:52pm
Fxr... I think it might be a girl dating girl situation... galmoonlight, am i right?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2004
Mon, 11-14-2005 - 10:02pm

Nevermind, I have no idea if the friend is a guy or a girl.



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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2005
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 1:17pm

Yep.

Its a girl dating a girl, I don't think that changes anything though.




Edited 11/15/2005 1:18 pm ET by gal_moonlight
We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2005
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 2:11pm
No, not at all... but I think there is a diff between a friend asking a friend for money as opposed to a romantic interest helping. I guess that's what I was clarifying.

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