Awesome guy but hasn't called me back!!

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Registered: 09-17-2004
Awesome guy but hasn't called me back!!
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Fri, 06-10-2005 - 7:24pm

About a month ago, I met a great guy online. We have so much in common, and really hit it off! We saw each every weekend, and sometimes during the week... we enjoyed each others company. I met his friends and he met mine. Anyway, last weekend, he told me how much he liked me... blah blah blah... and I said the same to him. We both took our profiles offline too.

Well, I haven't heard from him since sunday. I called him on wednesday, left a message, but he hasn't returned it. What's going on here??? I'm so frustrated... I want to call him again but I know I shouldn't.. don't want to seem desparate.

Any advice would help... thanks!

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Registered: 09-17-2004
Sat, 06-11-2005 - 4:23pm
He did mention to me about traveling this week.. just thought he would call at some point to say hi. I did respond back to his text message... just asked how his trip went... he said it didn't go well and it was a long week. Maybe he's struggling with something at work, and doesn't want to tell me about it. Something just doesn't seem right.. Who knows?? I do know that I'm not calling him... I feel like I've done enough on my part... he can contact me now. Thanks for the advicce.... i'll keep you posted!
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Registered: 06-05-2005
Sat, 06-11-2005 - 11:59pm
I'm very glad that you're decided to not call him. That's excellent. When we women sleep with a guy and his behaviour changes, it hurts a lot and it takes a lot of strength to let go and move on. You seem to be on the right track in that you've made a decision and you're sticking to it. That's fantastic. Hold your head up high and move on. If he's really the one for you, he would contact you, apologise for being distant and try to make it up to you. It's possible that his distance has a lot to do with another woman (an ex or co-worker). In any case, love yourself and respect yourself enough to be willing to let go.

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