Bad News - Good News

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Bad News - Good News
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Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:15am

As I was browsing online....


Bad news is I am very private person & do not post my pics for the ppl I don't know to gawk at. Good news is I just bought a new digital camera this week. If you're into pics I can bring it with me on our date.


My perfect match is someone who is not trying to sell me their exterior good looks. A generic girl next door from a family with no crazy people in it.


In an ideal relationship you both don't want & don't need anyone else but each other - works like an enchanted circle for just us.


I usually have a girlfriend in my life and do not consider it dating when we meet someplace or go someplace together. To me a girl

 

 

 

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:33am

A family with no crazy people in it?

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Registered: 08-19-2004
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 8:18am
Stacey - I'll thank you to keep my auntie Mabel out of this, LOL.
JH - I'd definitely NEXT that dude.
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Registered: 01-31-2004
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 10:49am
smooth operator aka player :)
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Registered: 11-18-2003
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 11:05am
Funny. I didn't see him as a player. I saw him as a control freak; a loner; a potential stalker.

 

 

 

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 11:24am

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I usually have a girlfriend in my life and do not consider it dating when we meet someplace or go someplace together. To me a girl I see once but never see again is a date. A girl I see all the time is a girlfriend & I am her boyfriend - not her date.>>>

the above made me think - "player" - wants to make you feel like you are the special one.
But I might be wrong - I have misjudged before.
Whatever it is - he is BAD news.
Irina

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 12:27pm
LOL

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Registered: 01-01-2004
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 12:28pm

I agree with you on this one my friend!

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Registered: 12-10-2004
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 10:29pm

I'm a bit surprised that several jumped to the notion that he means nobody AT ALL but the two people in the relationship (ie, creepy control freak who never wants to do anything without the gf around- and vice versa).

I think he's saying it in the context of trying to show that he's a one-woman man, that he doesn't want to date around, and that actually he doesn't like to "date"; he wants to have a single woman who is his girlfriend. It doesn't have anything to do with outside friends, family, etc.

Now, he might be just saying that because he has read approximately one million females's profiles that say something like "I don't want any cheaters, liars, or guys who play around" and he figures that's the best way to get into a gal's pants.

(Attention all women: that is perhaps the biggest cliche I see in women's profiles, and if it's in yours, go edit it RIGHT NOW. You might as well have a giant red flashing sign that says "I GOT CHEATED ON BY MY LAST BOYFRIEND/HUSBAND/SIGNIFCANT OTHER" in your profile, and it's horribly unattractive.)

Or he might honestly mean it, and just put it badly. Many guys are not very good writers, and we're not very good at talking about feelings; put the two together and you're lucky if you get any written feelings or deep thoughts at all.

But I think that if you read it in the full context, and see that he's talking about it in the idea of "when we go places and do things", he means it as him and one girl, not dating others, not cheating, and that he's not a guy who likes to have a stable of women. (Or at least that's what he wants you to think.)

My mind isn't made up whether he means it or if he's just a player who wants women to think they're special and "the one".