Is this a bad sign?
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| Tue, 08-29-2006 - 1:15pm |
Hi everyone,
Sorry if this is a dumb question, but I have only 2 weeks of experience with online dating, and have only ever had 1 boyfriend, so my overall level of experience with guys is quite limited. . .
Anyway, I emailed a guy I was interested in, but after a week had gone by with no response, I assumed he was not interested. 9 days after I emailed him, he replied, said I wrote a great profile and that it was up his alley. He apologized for the delayed reply, saying he was out of town and had been checking his email, but not writing any. I replied to his email, told him I wouldn't be writing emails if I was on vacation either, answered his questions and asked him a couple questions similar in nature to the ones he'd asked me. That was 5 days ago, and he hasn't replied yet. It's a little strange because he logs onto the site several times a day, every day. I really don't mind that it takes a while to get a reply; I guess I'm just so used to email being used for high-paced work-related communication that it makes me wonder if this pace is normal for online dating, or if it means he's not interested, or maybe talking to so many girls he can't keep up, etc.
I'm clueless as to what's normal and what's not, so any thoughts are appreciated!

I wouldn't be holding my breath if I were you, but he may still turn out to be interested. I find it's best to think of each email I send or phone call I have (or even each date I have) as casting a message in a bottle into the ocean ;-). It's not very likely to be returned, so I put it out of my mind and move on. If I hear back, great, if not, oh well!
Sheri
So what did you end up doing? I'm kind of having the same problem...it's been three days. Geez, why can't they just write back - regardless if they're interested or not, at least tell me so I can move on!
I don't know...I hate this.