being too suspicious

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-27-2005
being too suspicious
2
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 6:30am
I have to stop being so suspicious of everybody when there's likely no reason to feel this way. I was chatting with the guy I've been emailing from lavalife last night on IM for about 2 hrs and we made plans to meet this Sat. The thing that makes me suspicious of him, but everybody will probably think I'm crazy, is that he goes by another name on IM and hotmail but told me his real name. He had his real name under his hotmail name but after we chatted, I noticed he took his real name off. I shouldn't think anything of this, I know. That's just me.
Would anybody else think anything of this?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-12-2005
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 6:39am
In the early stages of "meeting", I wouldnt think too much about it... he has to protect himself too from any crazies out there... go with it and be appropriately cautious as we all need to be...
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2005
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 8:48am

It is always good to be leery when meeting any kind of stranger.

CL-Truewild1969

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