Best Dating Website

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Best Dating Website
Sat, 04-10-2010 - 4:58pm
I am thinking about online dating.


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Registered: 10-16-2006
Sun, 04-11-2010 - 7:33am

It depends on where you live. The two most popular are and eHarmony. You will find all ages on these sites. Match lets you contact anyone you want on the site, but eHarmony makes the selections and sends them to you. A big free site is Plenty of Fish, but I've had no luck at all with it, but I've heard of many people meeting this way. I tried Eharmony for a month and they kept sending me much much older men. I've had the most luck with I'm 55, BTW.

A lot of it is luck and perseverance. Well, you do need to write a good profile and have good photos posted.

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Registered: 04-30-2008
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 1:32am

I've met a couple of women from and it's reasonably well run. You certainly give and receive more information than you do on plenty of fish.

Another site that I like is It's free and, in my opinion, you can get much greater insight into the other people on the site. You have to write a profile (as with any other site) and then there are very many multiple choice tests that are written by other members on the site. In addition there are questions that you answer to determine your compatibility with other people on the site. Once again, answer as many or as few as you choose. What I like is that you can get a percent match based on the questions you answer. However, you can also get insight into prospective matches by what questions they choose to answer as well as how they answer them.

I think it has more of an edge than the mainstream sites do. Give it a try. The only thing you have to lose is the time it takes to fill out your profile.

Good luck

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Wed, 04-14-2010 - 11:14am
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Registered: 05-06-2010
Mon, 05-10-2010 - 1:39pm

A lot of dating websites buy databases or share other websites' members to pad their numbers. I was looking at and spotted an interesting profile that read, "My sister told me to join so here I am..." I think Yahoo Personals and "share" as well. I don't know how the prices compare, though.

When your subscription is about to expire, you will suddenly get inundated with "winks," which I don't think is a coincidence.

There are also a lot of fake profiles that I've seen over the years. Identical photo, identical text, very attractive men. Sure, people move around but you think they might change a word or two now and again!

Seems to me years ago when eHarmony first came on the scene, I created a profile and they sent me two matches, both totally not my type, and one was about thirty years older than I was! Do they ever send women much younger matches, now with the greater social acceptance of "cougars?"

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Registered: 06-29-2007
Wed, 05-12-2010 - 8:55am
I am new to the dating world after having been married for 25 years. I am not necessarily looking for a committed relationship, but just to get out there, meet people and have some fun. If lucky then maybe I will find someone special. I have been checking out dating sites. I think I am going to stay single if this is what the world has to offer me. Or I need to move. I know I am not perfect, but really.... choose better photos men! Don't show me photos of you from 10 years ago. Don't use photos of you that you can't see or aren't in focus. Also, there are some "interesting" men out there in my age bracket. I think I will be happy single and spending time with my kids, my friends and my horse!
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Wed, 05-12-2010 - 12:32pm
I too have been on several sites. I hate the ones that select for you. I am in an age bracket where I am not usually interested in the matches by age. Now they are putting in income as a determinate that does lessen any chance of meeting or being matched with a possible friend.
The "sharing" of and retention of people who are either no longer members,or none participation plus the fraud sites who have employees write you notes etc,to keep you interested and PAYING!

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Registered: 01-27-2004
Wed, 06-16-2010 - 12:57pm
I've been to a few & found Plenty of Fish to be better.
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Wed, 06-16-2010 - 9:13pm
I've been doing OLD on and off for 6yrs. now.
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Fri, 07-02-2010 - 9:44pm

Personally, I give up on Online Dating. I either meet total freakin' weirdos or young men interested in sex or a mommy, I'm not sure which.

I'm 41. I either get e-mails from 55 year olds who send me e-mail after e-mail asking me out when we barely exchange an e-mail, or contact from 25 year olds with no education and are total losers.

I've tried Match, eharmony,, plenty of name it. I'm at the point where giving up is the best option. I think online dating has become what singles bars became in the 70's. Gross.

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Registered: 07-04-2010
Mon, 07-05-2010 - 9:02am
Right now I am on Plenty of Fish because it's free. I've tried and as well as I liekd Cupid because it has the chat room option. But I can't afford to pay for any sites right now.
I have been doing OLD for a couple of years now, and I have found a couple of decent guys. Dating is dating. You have to keep plugging away until you find the right guy. What I do like about OLD is the fact that I can take it at my own pace. I like to IM for a few days before I even give him my number. Then we text for a few days and set up a meeting. That way I know a little about him, and if during the course of our dinner date conversation, something doesn't add up from what he IM'd me earleir, I know that's a red flag.