This bites

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Registered: 03-20-2003
This bites
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Thu, 02-17-2005 - 9:59pm

Y'all know I really liked the guy. But he's just not ready for what I want and I think he seriously misled me. So I had to send this email - it sucks but I gotta do what I gotta do. We were just short of 2 months. I thought about doing this by phone or in person, but I really don't want to see/hear his reaction. He can either get back to me or ghost. Whatever.

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So here’s the thing. I know you said it seemed soon for me to bring up talk of being exclusive, but, you still supposedly agreed to it. Ten days later not only is your profile still up but you’re also "active within 24 hours". This is exactly the kind of game I don’t have the time or energy for. All I needed was to know if we were on the same page, and obviously we’re not.

I do like you enough to not completely write you off. But at the moment you don’t seem interested in pursuing a relationship with me beyond casual convenience. (Which, by the way, would have been fine if you had been honest instead of giving me the false hope that it could have been more.)

So if at some point you decide you do want more and are ready/willing/able to get real with me, let me know and we can give it a shot and see if it works out. For my part, I’ll leave the possibility open. I do think we clicked pretty well and I’d like to think it’s just a matter of the timing not being quite right.

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Registered: 05-16-2004
In reply to: phoenixmama
Mon, 02-21-2005 - 12:15pm
It's definitely beneficial to have your profile active one month on and one month off.

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