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| Wed, 09-06-2006 - 1:51pm |
OK. This story's kinda long. I went out with a girl I met on match, and it went extremely well (or so I thought). Definitely the best meet I've had during my online dating run. I called her a couple of days later (Thurs) to set up date #2 (an 80s tribute band the following wednesday - we're both 80s buffs). She said yes and sounded very excited. The following Tuesday night, I called to confirm, and she didn't answer or return my call. The next morning, around 10am, I called again and left another message, something like, "I assume you changed your mind about tonight, which is fine. If I'm wrong call me back and let me know." She called me back about an hour later and apologized for not getting back to me the night before. She said she was in a bad car accident Monday night, got hurt, totalled her car, etc. Yeah, I know what you're thinking. I'd be thinking that too if I were you, but I actually believed her - she had way too many details to her story - I won't get into them. She said she was sleeping when I called the night before (too much vicodin), woke up at midnight, saw I called, but decided to wait till the morning to call me back b/c it was so late. She wanted to "reschedule" the date. I told her to call me when things settled down (she was on her way to a follow up doctor's appointment). That was last wednesday. Now it's this wednesday, and, of course, I haven't heard from her. Should I call her again or save this little ounce of pride I have left? Oh yeah, for what it's worth, match says she hasn't been online in 2 weeks...

I totally agree!
Trying to contact her again now will only look desperate. Dont do it.