Boat trip!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2004
Boat trip!
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Thu, 05-19-2005 - 1:35pm

Well, this weekend I am headed down to "the boat"...with kids in tow. I will meet his "mistress". Quite frankly, I/we are really excited. The weather should be great and he has a nice little excursion planned.

I may also finally meet his daughter. He said she may stop by for a visit. She doesn't live far from where his boat is docked.

As much as I've wanted this, I am getting a little nervous about it. She's very important to him and I'm worried that she may not like me. I mean she's a grown woman. I can't "buy" her off with a lollipop or stuffed animal! LOL!

What if she thinks I'm an idiot, or boring, or BOTH!?! Arrrgghhhh!!!! OK...deep breath.

I don't know what's worse, meeting someone's kids or their parents!

I'll bore you all with the details next week. :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2003
In reply to: luv2004
Thu, 05-19-2005 - 1:55pm

Unless you become someone else overnight, I doubt she's going to think any of those things. For all you know, she may be worried about you liking her!

He likes you, that's all that really matters. Unless she had some super-strong objections to you, I don't think you have any worries.

BREATHE!!! This is what you wanted. So now kick back and enjoy it. (And maybe bring a bottle of wine so ya really kick back! LOLOL)

Good luck. It will be fine!

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2004
In reply to: luv2004
Thu, 05-19-2005 - 2:50pm

Luv....She is going to be crazy about you. I promise you have nothing to worry about. I love boating. I am very excited for you. I can't not wait to hear about all the details.

Good Luck!

Jodie

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-07-2005
In reply to: luv2004
Thu, 05-19-2005 - 9:28pm

Hi Luv,

That's great that you are going to the boat this weekend. I know it's kind of scary meeting his daughter, but you'll do great. But I can understand you feeling as you do about meeting her since some grown children can be very protective about their parents. Try not to worry. Boating is so much fun and I think that all of you will have a great time.

Sunshine

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2004
In reply to: luv2004
Fri, 05-20-2005 - 11:05am
Thanks guys! Feeling more relaxed and I think it will be fun. Have a great weekend!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2005
In reply to: luv2004
Fri, 05-20-2005 - 3:28pm

Have fun and don't worry about anything - just have a good time and be your adorable self!!!!!