bummed out...

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bummed out...
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Tue, 10-31-2006 - 12:09am

I just want to post this and maybe you ladies can offer some advice. Why is it that these jerks that are online and wanting to "date" you, say one thing then you follow your gutt and they just want a piece of a$$. I didn't go as far as dating anyone, just talking to them prior to any type of date. But, I am tired of this crap. I am a divorced mom and I think that dating has become very stupid!!

Christy

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 10-31-2006 - 10:05am

Honestly, for me, that's been a pretty small percentage of the men I've talked to and/or met online. So I don't let it bother me (too much, ha!) when it happens, I just move on to the other guys.

You're not going to stop jerks from being jerks, so the best thing to do (IMO) is just let it roll off you.

Sheri

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Registered: 02-02-2005
Tue, 10-31-2006 - 10:24am
Well at this point, i havent met anyone in person who is just trying to get into my pants. I just havent connected with anyone.
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Registered: 04-29-2003
Tue, 10-31-2006 - 7:10pm

You need thick skin but I believe if you BELIEVE - it will happen. Maybe not this week, this month or this year but it will happen!

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Registered: 09-27-2004
Wed, 11-01-2006 - 3:26pm
Great advice small peanut, although hard to actually live by. I know because I've had difficulties living by these words but have tried my hardest too. I think that if you do believe and you keep the faith and you keep praying then it will come to you. I think that once you start trying to see yourself in the situation that you want to be in and if you truley change your words and attitude that you will meet someone great, you can manifest something into your life. It's hard to do though and takes a ton of practice. Well, at least for me it does.