Can anyone make sense of this?
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|Thu, 12-17-2009 - 1:03am|
A good friend of mine has met a guy she has really flipped over who is 50, has never been married, no kids, and told her he has never had a relationship that lasted over 6 weeks. Early on over drinks, he made her promise that she wouldn't get 'needy' on him. He is successful, attractive and financially stable. She is really falling in love with him, but determined to 'play it cool' which seems to be bringing him around. They have seen each other for around 2 months once a week at the most. She doesn't call him all the time and is making a good effort not to be in his face too much.
I am just wondering what this guys game is. I have never met anyone like that and fear that he will end up disappointing her as she is very emotionally vulnerable right now. I tried to warn her but wonder if maybe I am just an old fuddy-duddy. Is this a way that someone who has it 'all going on' can get a little distance while they check you out or what? Anyone else met someone like this on the Internet?