Can't decide if I'm annoyed at this

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Can't decide if I'm annoyed at this
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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 10:35am

Some of you know about the guy I went out with a few weeks ago.

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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 10:55am

Sorry Stacey, but NEXT thig guy! He is playing games; nor is he interested. Seemingly like he is a control freak and you were not available when he wanted you to be; so he is bothered by that! Clearly evident by his behavior and his responses to your available dates for future plans.

Geez, what a jerk!!!

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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 10:56am
I think he is either not very interested or passive aggressive. If he were interested he would be trying to find ways to get together with you, not coming up with excuses why it isn't a good idea. The other possibility is that his comments are his way of trying to get you to chase after him and who needs that?
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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 11:11am

I agree with orchid on this. Geez...I got annoyed (at him) just reading your post;-P

This guy definitely has issues. Passive/aggressive to be sure, and seems to be trying to guilt you into making time for him. Who needs that?

Gotta NEXT this one, Stacey.

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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 11:39am
Nope, I'm with everyone else, Stace. The comment, "Well, no, I don't want to spread you too thin - you might get sick again if you do that." would have annoyed the heck out of me and even made me do a WTF on your behalf when I read it! :-) It sounds snotty and sarcastic. I think you've been more than accomodating. If he wants to get together, let him call you. Otherwise, let it go.

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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 11:50am

>>>So he went on to tell me

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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 12:07pm

Thanks, ladies!!!

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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 12:34pm
Ugh, he sounds like he is mocking you for your busy life. Even if he's teasing, it should stop after a couple "cute" little quips. You don't have to put up with that.

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YUCK. I absolutely HATE the 'pencil you in' thing. It's almost as bad as my all time least favorite comment: "I'm not sure what I'm doing that night." Yeah, he's a nexter. Too bad. But you definitely deserve better.