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| Mon, 05-02-2005 - 10:56pm |
Sorry I had to leave so quickly, my friend called whos birthday it is today and we were chatting about plans for her celebration this week. I cant multitask too well sometimes...
was great to chat for a few mins as surfergirl 1 and 2 , hehe.
seems like everyone is doing well for the most part.
JH, I know you will find the right guy, i really feel it. Its those tough periods like you are in now that it semes hopeless. There is always a reason for everything, and sometimes you don't realize why until later. But when you do, its a huge lightbulb. Why I try not to stress about these bummer times in dating. I know its all for a good reason. But it still doesn't take away the hurt you feel, especially seeing people having luck with OLD or other dating arenas. Your turn is soon.
I had this talk with a guy friend of mine awhile back,a month ago. The cousin of my friend who is match making me with the guy I was chatting about ... he was so bummed from his luck on match, and the many stream of gals who lead him on , then disappeared. he was angry, hurt and totally low on self esteem. I told him he should take a break - and that soon it would turn around. Guess what? the luck turned around. Hes dating this great girl now. Who knows how long it'll last but he is stoked he found a great girl to hang with.
So it'll happen JH. Im waiting too - but in the meantime, Im really happy just being single. Its strange , just all of a sudden when I left match and YP, I decided I would really enjoy "dating myself". Ok and a crush here and there like the guy whos friends with my friend =)

Thanks surfer. Yep - I've decided to start 'dating' myself. I'm going to direct my energy towards making myself happy and bettering my life - without a man.
To those who missed chat, here's a brief synopsis of topics discussed:
1. I announced that I removed my dating profile
2. We discussed in general the up/down cycles of online dating and periods of discouragement many of us tend to experience
3. "Does size matter?" Why some men will only date women who fall within a specific size range
4. We discussed part II of JNTIY
5. We discussed "sex on the first date"
If you weren't there last night, hopefully we'll see you next week.