Chatting vs. emailing
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|Tue, 08-26-2003 - 6:06pm|
Anyway, this guy from match emails me, and gives me his chat handle. I write back and say I'm not much of a chatter, but I'd be happy to exchange a few emails and see if it makes sense for us to meet. I then made some what I thought were thoughtful comments about his profile.
I get back "I email for work; I find chatting much more interactive". That's it. I'm inclined NOT to respond further. I'm not all that excited about him anyway (he seems a little odd and he smokes although he says he's trying to quit), so it's no great loss this time, but am I being unreasonable in asking him to respect my comfort zone? I suppose the same could be said, that I'm not respecting his, but he approached me, and he's the guy...I think that a man should be willing to go out of his way a little to make a woman feel comfortable in this setting. It's the chivalrous thing to do.