Confused and Rejected?
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Confused and Rejected?
| Tue, 08-01-2006 - 6:27am |
Hi, I am new to this, but I came across this as I was trying to figure out a dating dilemma. Alright, I went out with a guy from Match.com on Saturday, a guy who winked at me. We had (what I thought) was a great time, a lot of laughs and some flirting as well. The guy was so nice and seemed really interested. Before we split up to go on separate trains, he gave me a hug and said "Next time we'll have to go up by some bars with you and your roommates." And then he said hed call tomorrow--Sunday. He texted me when I got home to say "Thanks for the good time :)". Let me know if you get back ok. Well, it is now Tuesday and I'm freaking out because he hasn't called. And he's been back on the Match website so he obviously had time to do that but not to get back to me. Granted, I am new to the whole online dating thing, but I really like this guy. I am just looking for some advice as to what this could mean and what my next step should be. Thank you!!

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Most of my second dates were confirmed during the first date but not ALL.
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I agree, one should not draw hasty conclusions based on a first date. I always have VERY noncommittal first dates on OLD, as I consider that this is the phase when people get to know each other and should not do anything else together than have a cup of coffee or a drink (yes, maybe I am a little old fashioned). But many people don't understand that. I had a funny instance with a Match guy some time ago, with whom I had a nice first date as I saw it, but then got a really harsh email the next morning that he felt that we were not a good match. I chose not to get angry, wrote a couple of lines in reply that I had really enjoyed the date but if he thinks so, that is fine, to which he replied that actually, he had found me "incredibly sexy" and wants to "start over." Needless to say, I didn't see him any more, I was just not emotionally up to it.
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