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| Fri, 01-28-2005 - 6:41pm |
You remember a few days ago, in a fit of I don't know what, I filled out that profile with perfectmatch?
| Fri, 01-28-2005 - 6:41pm |
You remember a few days ago, in a fit of I don't know what, I filled out that profile with perfectmatch?
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>>The other question, I suppose, is how fair is it to really date anyone, when I am still hung up on the guy that I broke up with? Am I really in a good position to be considering dating at all yet? Or do you think I should jump in with both feet to "get over" him quickly?<<
Sure, jump in.
Jump in, that is, if you want to be the person that everyone is talking about when they complain about "I don't want to date anyone that is all hung up on their ex".
If you want to be the slightly-psycho person whose hangups about their ex is always intruding upon their new relationship, sure, go for it.
Personally? I'd vote no. Sit out for a while. Take it easy and re-fall in love with yourself. :)
And I commend you for having the smarts and enough self-awareness that you realize you ARE still hung up on the ex. Way too many people don't realize it when they're in that situation.
JUMP!!! We all have ex issues to some extent, right? The Loser has given you a gift, go out and spread it around.
Have fun, Linda!!!
NGOL said: >>Jump in, that is, if you want to be the person that everyone is talking about when they complain about "I don't want to date anyone that is all hung up on their ex".
What a clever guy. :)
I agree to some extent. You sound just a *little* too highschool about this guy at the moment. Which is fun, I know. -grin- And rebounds can certainly take your mind off the last guy. But that's not really all you're looking for, is it? If it is, then hell, I'd say go for it. But if you want something deeper than that, you might want to wait until you're more ready for it. And if this guy really is looking for a r'ship, it's really not fair for you to get HIS hopes up.
Maybe at least give it a few days to mull it over before you do anything else, relax & put things in perspective. Getting super-excited is the best way to get disappointed, right?
Of course, I don't know your whole story & what you're looking for. You are the only one who knows what's right for you. This is just my impression based on what you said.
...You got me curious enough to check it out too & I did their questionnaire, and I think their assessment of my personality was pretty darn close but just a bit off.
I've actually had some really good conversations with the ex the past couple of days.
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