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| Thu, 09-22-2005 - 7:59pm |
I had a first meet last night and let's just say that I let loose.
| Thu, 09-22-2005 - 7:59pm |
I had a first meet last night and let's just say that I let loose.
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You clarified well on the crotch grabbing, but who's butt was he slapping?
Of course.
How would he know it was over the top for you? It was your first date. I'm not saying everything he did was right or wrong but he wasn't getting any brake signals from you. Takes two to tango and putting all of it on him isn't fair. It would be nice to acknowledge your part in the shenanigans and chalk it up to a night of partying. Not a big deal at all. If I were him, I'd think you had a good time and would like to do it again. I don't think that makes him a bad guy.
Maybe you're thinking he brought out the worst in you and that's why he's no longer welcome. Just a thought.
God, I am so confused.
go w/ how you feel. again I agree there are two sides to every story. you both were drunk and had fun.,. that is all it was. this happened to me before and by letting someone treat you this way w/out saying anythning means it is ok.. and you were both drunk..
if he were to apologize and say yeah it was the drinking and both of us getting carried away then MAYBE i'd meet him somewhere where no drinking was involved and after that date decide.
but go w/ you feeling on that fact he did not apologize as you did , he could have at least apologized for going down your shirt, that is if he remembers but again he may not be thinking about it as much as you are..
you could go either way on it but if you give him another shot i would just be very observant and stay sober..
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