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| Sat, 03-05-2005 - 10:45am |
Per cupcake's suggestion... how long since you got some??
- Last night, baby! heh, heh
- Within the last week
- Within the last month
- 1-3 months
- 3-6 months
- 6-12 months
- 1-2 years
- More than 2 years
- I'm a virgin, you insensitive clod!
- Ummm... does giving it to myself count?
You will not be able to change your vote.

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Donna, you used your common sense. Way to go!!
amjay
Motherof2innb,
There's nothing wrong with waiting and I don't think 2-3 months is unreasonable to wait until having sex. At least that way you know if the guy is genuine and willing to take the time to work on a relationship.
Yet, there are also players out there disguised as good guys, a different breed of man that we have discussed on this board before - the ones who will woo you and be romantic and use all of the tricks where romance is concerned as they're very good at it and know what women like to hear. They wait their time patiently until their conquest is achieved, and then they move on with no bad feelings, guilt or last thoughts.
But I say to listen to your own thoughts and do what is right for you. Your friends can do what is right for themselves! I am in a relationship now that I have waited to have sex and I am glad that I did. So you're not alone in waiting, but it won't be 3 months for me!
Sunshine
Very informative poll. We are all over the calendar, aren't we? I had stopped actively pursuing men many years ago, and....nothing happened. The days just went by, as most of you realize....
Only this past year did I decide I really want to "change my way of living," as the old song goes. So theoretically I just had to find a guy I was attracted to. Could I return to my youthful wantonness? In my youth, I used to jump in bed without a thought. (Note that I'm not saying I enjoyed it the way I deserved to.)
But even though I found a couple of guys I wouldn't mind sleeping with, my medical problem prevents that at the moment. So I am indulging in this pasttime which is quite novel to me: dating and kissing and cuddling WITHOUT SEX! It is truly a whole new world of male-female interaction for me. (But, gosh, am I horny!)
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