"Cutie".....grrr (venting)

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"Cutie".....grrr (venting)
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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 8:43pm

Okay...the latest is that I am corresponding with someone who seems perfectly nice,

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Registered: 05-16-2004
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 9:30pm

The two tag rule will teach you all about "my hottie match" guys...

The rule is that it takes two touchdowns with subsequent ghosting by two hotties for the new match people to finally figure out why the hot guy is online...

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 9:44pm
Sparkle, I am SO with you there. Some guy that I had winked at on Yahoo kept calling me Cutie. It bugged me so much!! There were a couple other things about him that just were not quite right so I gave him the "I've been thinking about it and we're just not a match" email last night. Although the Cutie thing was not the kicker, it was one of the major factors that made me decide to move on.

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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 9:55pm
Sorry LG, but no clue what the hell you are saying.
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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 9:59pm
Yeah, I'm with Sparkle on that one too. Huh? Wrong thread?

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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 10:00pm

Hey Vex-


Yep, it takes only one small annoying thing to wreck it, huh?

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Registered: 12-10-2004
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 10:06pm

If it only takes one little thing to put you off from liking a guy... well, nobody's perfect, so you're setting yourself up to be alone for a LONG time.

Here's an idea: Tell him you don't like being called "cutie".

I know, radical idea, but give it a shot and see what he says.

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 10:16pm
I know that I am pretty picky and hard on guys too but I gotta say, I think you are being TOO hard on him! Yes, the cutie thing is annoying but the "braving the weather" thing is kinda sweet! He might be over-exuberant, but it sounds like he is just trying to impress you. Of course, it seems to be turning you off, but maybe give him a chance. Talk on the phone or meet before the emailing goes much further to see what impression you have of him offline. I know you are waiting for him to suggest it, but email is such a bad way to get to know someone.

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Registered: 07-03-2004
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 10:42pm

Telling a new guy you are sick is a great opportunity to see what he's made of. Will he say, "okaycallmewhenyou'refeelingbettergottago....*click*" or will he give you some sympathy?

Your guy sounded very sweet, to me.

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Registered: 01-01-2004
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 9:22pm

Thanks for letting me know I'll be alone for a long time.

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Thu, 03-10-2005 - 9:26pm

Maybe I am just not cut out for this stuff.

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