Cyber stalking OLD

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Cyber stalking OLD
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Sat, 11-26-2011 - 1:22pm

Hello

I have yet to figure out why some men cant stop the cyber stalking OLD... I mean I have blocked a few that keep IM ing and never want to meet or talk on phone.. Its really becoming a pain to me because I wish I could figure out why they do it..

Only thing I could figure out is that they need their ego fed and they come to me because they think I will answer them while no other smart enough woman will answer them...???

I have blocked 16 men already because all they do is want to chat online or write.. I even met two that have resurfaced after a year or so.. to ask me things online.. I have to block them because its distracting when I see them online.. I so wish POF didnt have that stupid feature of seeing someone you know online. It feels like an invasion of privacy but sometimes when I am on bam the stalkers are there trying to talk to me.. I dont know why that bothers me so much but it does..

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 11-26-2011 - 6:16pm

Actually that's why I usually think it's a good idea not to do IM at all--it just invites these guys to waste your time chatting when they have no interest in meeting you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Sat, 11-26-2011 - 6:58pm

oh; I agree with you but sometimes I forget to turn the chat off.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2010
Mon, 11-28-2011 - 12:10am

It's a waste of time trying to figure out "why" - what difference does it make?