Cybersex

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Registered: 05-26-2003
Cybersex
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Mon, 05-26-2003 - 8:33pm
Is it ok to have cybersex with someone I don't know well with a webcam? There seem to be a lot of people doing it and it looks like fun yet I have some concerns. How can I make this a safe activity?
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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: risktaker2003
Mon, 05-26-2003 - 11:39pm
Hello. I have participated in online intimacy with one of my former boyfriends, someone that I trusted quite a bit. I'm not the best to give advice on this subject. But I don't think if you do things on a live webcam program that the other person can record it. Showing it to other people in the room at that time ...they could obviously. When it comes down to it, I would say if your going to participate in intimate actions online with another person, I would make sure its someone you trusted. The internet sex industry is quite popular and I'm sure you wouldn't want someone to take something so private and make it public.
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Registered: 05-26-2003
In reply to: risktaker2003
Tue, 05-27-2003 - 12:45am
Thanks for your advice. What about having more of an anonymous exchange. If I kept my face off the cam, do you think that would be better? Just seems like it could be kind of erotic in that sense, to have a stranger see you, because I would not do that in real life, but I do want to be careful to. Does that make sense?
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Registered: 05-27-2003
In reply to: risktaker2003
Tue, 05-27-2003 - 4:43am
is it ok? i can say yes...

I have to admit it i have done that a couple of times with a stranger yes (not showing face)....

but i have found a steady cybersex partner...We cybersex almost daily for a year...yes..we also cybersex with a cam if im alone and it's fun....we clicked and made each other happy by doing that...our cybersex on cam led to phone sex...

sometimes he call me at night...he sets time for both of us...so i have to be ready at a certain time..or he calls and tells me he wanna do it..then i have to prepare myself then he will call me back...its fun...and its safe..

and i can say this is ok as long as u can still perform your daily activities

so try it thres no harm theres no actual penetration so its safe..but only do it to the one u trust... and a bit of advice...IT'S ADDICTIVE !!!!

good luck

peach

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Registered: 04-16-2003
In reply to: risktaker2003
Tue, 05-27-2003 - 9:24am
Now this is an interesting question. Well, I look at cybersex, the same way I do real live sex. Simply because, with a webcam you can see the person, not feel...but still see who you are getting it on with. I dont see anything wrong with it, but I would be very selective in who I did this with. Simply, a moral thing for me. I just take being on line too seriously to have webcam sex with just anyone. I mean, for others it is fine. Some can do it and not feel any guilt or shame, but I just feel like I would be putting myself on display for someone I dont even know. It just seems too personal for me. I wish you luck with any cybersexing you have, and just think...you dont have to worry about protection! lol It is the safest sex you can have without actually having it. I guess I am just too shy for that. lol

Gail

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: risktaker2003
Tue, 05-27-2003 - 10:46am
If both of you are consenting adults and it makes you happy and you feel comfortable, why not? I would be careful as far as whether your naked picture would then be accessible by others - for example, a future boyfriend, fiancee or husband.