Dating sites showing activity

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2007
Dating sites showing activity
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Sun, 01-16-2011 - 8:18pm

Have any of you ever noticed or had an issue with a dating site showing activity that really is not happening?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2007
Thu, 01-20-2011 - 8:53pm

I agree, he is an information technology person so he could change it very quickly if he wanted to.

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Registered: 06-07-2004
Thu, 01-20-2011 - 9:51am

It is possible to have your login information saved by your browser for certain sites. They usually have a little checkbox on the login page that says remember me for future visits or something like that. So that if you have a site saved in your favorites, and you click on it, it will take you to the site and log you in automatically.

The problem with what he is saying is that I know of no way for your browser to go to a site automatically without you having to click on a favorite or a bookmark or a link of some kind. It requires human intervention. So yes he might have his login information for the dating site saved, he he still must physically clicl on something to take him there. The only other possibility is if he had the dating site set as his homepage. Then when he started his browser it takes you right to your homepage. I would think you wouldn't have a dating site set as your homepage though.

In any case it is completely changeable and if doesn't change it, it means he wants to keep looking at th dating sites.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2007
Wed, 01-19-2011 - 10:33pm

I personally think he has been but he says he just has his computer fixed to auomatically log him in.

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Registered: 06-07-2004
Wed, 01-19-2011 - 11:45am

I have never heard of this problem before but as the other person said it is definitely possible the site is having some technical issues.

The only other thing I could see as a possibility is that if you are logging in from different computers and /or browsers, that you have some old pages cached and it is showing you pages that are not current. Try refreshing the browser pages.

In any case your BF is not being truthful with you because in all cases you mentioned he has been on the site this month and he said he hasn't for months.

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Registered: 02-23-2010
Tue, 01-18-2011 - 3:05pm

I guess it's possible....but you have to keep your mind open to the possibility exists that he is lying to you.