dean called meUPDATE

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Registered: 09-16-2005
dean called meUPDATE
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Thu, 03-02-2006 - 12:36am
me and dean chated online and then he said he had to go to his town he asked if he could call later around 11 30pm. He signed off around 8 and called at 9, im so happy i got the phone b4 my mom did. he sounds so cute or maybe im just clingy to him cus my bday is coming up. he asked when would be a good month for us to meet and where. i stated the mall in grandville in april, but he is begging for march 13th which i will be having surgey so NO GO! but he continues to ask for me to change the surgey date to the week after but i cant. he was on his cell and driving to his house which has a low signal we chatted for a 55 mins and then his phone went dead. i got online and he was there waiting his signal died he literally greeted me "YAY ur here". sadly he has to work late and i have to work early so yeah BOOO EMPLOYMENT.
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Registered: 10-17-2002
Thu, 03-02-2006 - 11:05am

OK, I'm sorry, but what kind of schmuck asks you to reschedule surgery to meet him because that's what he wants?

I think the two of you are getting far too attached to each other. The "strip pool" was a really bad idea. I'm thinking he's now looking for a booty call or a just sex thing. If that's what you want, go for it. The more posts you put out here, the worse feeling I get about your "relationship". You are afraid for him to talk to your family (but claim you don't care what your family thinks), have pressure from him to hook up, have played naked online games with this guy before you've met him... not exactly a great basis for a strong relationship. You are setting yourself up for a lot of disappointment.

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Registered: 02-15-2005
Thu, 03-02-2006 - 2:59pm

Can I ask how old you are? And how old he claims to be?

I'm concerned - this sounds like a grown man trying to manipulate a teenager.

sorry if I'm wrong...


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Registered: 09-16-2005
Thu, 03-02-2006 - 11:00pm
he is 19 and im 20
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Thu, 03-02-2006 - 11:24pm
we are both looking for friendship maybe more later and both shy to the point of barely talking. Surgery its minor and maybe pushed back for new discovery of my health, as he says if im having second thoughts not to worry about it this month. He is leaving with his mom to visit family for a few weeks and dont no when hell be back, Im starting summer classes and another job so im book for the summer and going to different colleges out of state, so the time i can see him is in the fall BUT he will start his class at CMU. the only window of opertuity is march before the 20th (sadly we are trying to work it out and gettin a migraine from the thought) im one of those people that if i have to think about it too much i just wont do it.
strip pool, such a mans game, which im great at :) and when i say shy i mean hes SHY nothing was seen *rolls eyes*
i dont want my family to be rude to him so ill just have him call my cell. Its happen before with my mexican b4 after my mom yelled at him to go back over the boarder and he dumped me the next day *rolls eyes annoyed*