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|Fri, 08-08-2003 - 4:17am|
I know what you wanted to say or imply to the board, correct me if I’m wrong. Here goes, that it is not safe to meet someone over at any guy’s apartment for the 1st time if you merely met him online because there is a possibility of being raped, sexually assault or even killed. And you are concerned about anyone’s safety especially young teens right?
I agree to it that it will pose a great danger and I personally would not encourage anyone to do or copy what Gabi has done. Coming from a conservative society and family, I myself would not do it.
But it is Gabi’s choice, it’s her life, we do not know her personally and we don’t know the exact situation she is in and we don’t know Lloyd too. She’s just excited to share her experience to all of us and she’s happy with him. We can only give her our advice; she may or may not take it, but not pass judgment on her being. So we should let her be where she wanted to be. These talks already gone long b/c it went way too personal on her and sometimes posts are misinterpreted.
You have your point and stand, she has her own too. Nobody is wrong, nor right……(just left :D(silly me!) Everybody is different, ‘rules’ maybe good for you, it may not be good for me or for the others…Loosen up Deena and let us be all happy and Gail !!! (…ooops I mean gay).lol
And you also said that online communication as largely FANTASY, I believe it’s not….it can HAPPEN Deena! There are success stories (you might say it’s only few), here like Debbie, Hollysnow and others. I can’t say mine was already a success but I can firmly say it is NOT fantasy. As long as we both are honest and know what our goals are, nothing could go wrong…
Btw, are you willing to be our member of the week? I would love you to be one..what ya say???