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| Tue, 01-03-2006 - 5:42pm |
Well, I am disappointed. I was supposed to spend New Years Eve with Teddy, even bought a new outfit and everything. We were planning on going to dinner, and then play pool. But he was on call and got called into work at 10 pm that night. So I spent NY with my cat. =(
I was really upset (not with Teddy) b/c I had arranged for my parents to keep my son that evening, and they took him out of town with them, so I couldn't even spend NY eve with my family or my son.
Anyway, we had agreed to spend New Years Day together instead, just pretend to go back in time... But then there was some confusion as to when he got off from work , and when he told me 11 pm, I was like NO Way that's too late... But he didn't share this with me untl 5pm on Sunday. I thought he got off work at like 7 or 8... but b/c he was on call he had to stay even later.
I shared my disappointment and frustration with him, and he apologized, but I was really irritated b/c I really felt that he could have made that phone call a bit earlier in the day or told me his schedule when he was called into work. I don't know. I know this is not a big "deal", but I was really hurt, b/c I sacriiced time away from my son, and he didn't even volunteer the info that he was on call and there was always a possibility that he would be called in.
So Sunday night he asked me this messed things up for us, and if he still had a chance. He also told me he would do anything to make it up to me. So I told him, that I was just frustrated and disappointed and things would be fine, but if he wanted to make things up to me I wouldn't stop him.
I am getting a vibe... not sure what it is....feeling something like laziness coming from him, I don't know why.... just a vibe....

You’re vibe might be right or just a matter of “bad timing”.....don’t put all eggs in one basket and let’s see how he is from here out. He just might pull through
Good luck!
SP
Hi- yeah you must be thinking of someone else. This is the first time he has done this. He is a Supervisor of a group home... not a doctor- I would never date a doctor =)
I don't know why but I just don't think this is going to work out. I don't see where he is putting in the same amount of effort, that he did a month ago. I know this is somewhat normal, but this early on?? And when I mean effort, I mean calling me or texting me as much as he did. I don't know maybe its just me!!!!!
I think this is definitely a time to go with your gut.