Discouraged With Online Dating
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Discouraged With Online Dating
| Mon, 12-19-2005 - 4:07pm |
I was just wondering am I the only one that is not having any luck with online dating? For those of you that have met people did it take you a long time? I tried eharmony, but only had two dates off of that neither which were good matches for me. I recently joined match.com and I am having bad luck with that site. It seems to me that match has alot of guys, but most of them seem like players and not very sincere. I also feel that online dating is making me doubt myself. I am in my 30's and I am wondering for most people having luck with this if they are in a different age group. I would love to hear other people's experiences with this.
Thank you,
Karalyn

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Time out. Pause.
By saying <> you are talking to a board of people who actively participate in OLD. If you choose not to, fine but please do not insult those who do.
Thank you Kerry!!
FWIW Hal, I lead a very active social life, but I still chose OLD because I didn't hang out with a single crowd and because I found that OLD offered the opportunity to meet more men thus increasing my chances of finding someone.
People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.
I'm happy for you. Why are people so sensitive?
I used online dating because I work shifts and as a result I don't get to socialise much.
Heaven forbid that anyone could be as dysfunctional as me!!! Sorry to all those I have insulted...
*SHEEEESH!*
I wouldn't say we are sensitive. Like anyone else in a group we don't like to be labeled as something we are not. For four years I've heard that OLD people are perverts, players, social misfits and a myriad of other things. Granted there are those types of people doing OLD, but those types of people are also walking around in the grocery stores, libraries, etc. Do we label those places? Nope, we march right in those places and stand among them and think nothing of it?
Nuff said IMO
>Do we label those places? Nope, we march right in
>those places and stand among them and think nothing of it?
EXACTLY my point. We don't march right in and try to date them. Besides, OLD is a concentrating mechanism. You get all perverts, players, and social misfits from all the different grocery stores, libraries, etc in one convenient location-- Just a click away ;-)
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ITA! Everyone who uses/used OLD did or does so for their own reasons. Whatever those reasons are they should not be judged by them or labled inappropriately.
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