Do u think this is something special

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2004
Do u think this is something special
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Fri, 01-20-2006 - 10:41pm
well I meet a guy online about 3weeks ago. We seen each others pic and we started to talk. well he is a great guy and i just love talking with him. he also tells me the same. So about a week ago we meet and it was instant attraction. Well he is a truck driver and we talk everynight. we get along good and i feel this is something special. He tells me how he cant wait to see me. he told me he has not felt the way he feel about me since when he meet his sons mother. well however he wants me to come to his city and stay a weekend so we could spend time together. He stays about 3 hrs away. But in the summer he is moving to my city. So do u think this could be something special?
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2005
Sat, 01-21-2006 - 2:07am

Hi lucky and welcome to the board! I hope you'll stick around even after you get advice.


Could it be something special? Most definitely... only time will tell though. It's great that you've met and that you have that attraction in real life too. That's the most important.


Now let me ask you this... why are you wondering if it is something special? Do you have any doubts?


iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2003
Sat, 01-21-2006 - 7:30am
Anything's possible and he could be someone you end up with for a long time but you really can't tell this early on. I've felt that way before and I was wrong so that's my two cents. I prefer now to take it one day at a time and not get too involved emotionally no matter how into the guy I really am and how into me he is as well, or at least he's pretending to be. Everything sounded good until you mentioned that he wants you to stay for the weekend. Do you mean at his place? If so, I would be wary about what this guy's motivation is.