do you contact people?

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Registered: 02-02-2005
do you contact people?
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Tue, 10-03-2006 - 2:59pm

I was reading another board and a few guys were saying that women never need to contact guys online because they get enough contacting from guys themselves. Now for me, I did contact two people...and neither of them responded. A bit of a blow to the ego...but whatever, there's been lots i havent responded to either. But due to that...i feel that i dont want to contact anyone anymore...I am sensitive and if it keeps happening i'll really feel like, wow what is wrong with me, that no one is responding to me when ive contacted them first? Am i totally contacting people out of my league? I didnt think so...i will admit one was very attractive, he perhaps gets lots of contacting.

What about you? do you contact many people or do you let them do most of the contacting then if you like them you respond?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 10-05-2006 - 8:39pm

I don't know (I gave up on match a while ago, when they introduced the "who's viewed you" feature that I *hate*, LOL!)...but I think that you can only see that you have an email, not who it's from.

Sheri

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Registered: 04-07-2003
Thu, 10-05-2006 - 10:37pm
I do sometimes. I think it's a good way to try to attract the attention of men I would guess I would have a connection with. I've read that one of the of most attractive things about someone is their attraction to you. I just make sure I don't think of them again after I have sent the first contact unless they respond (and then persue). Try to equate it with chatting with a guy at a party. He may respond to your overtures, or he may not.

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