Do you remeber the James Bond guy?
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Do you remeber the James Bond guy?
| Fri, 10-28-2005 - 12:34am |
There was a guy on yahoo that had some reference to something about James Bond in his email to me, something about martini's I think.


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As far as keeping your options open, how come you do not want to meet James Bond?
My gf met a guy online who had stated he was dating someone and they decided not to meet. 2 months later he contacted her stating the situation didn't work out and they met and have been dating ever since.
In my opinion I say a second best is when you met someone, but that someone was not really interested in you as a potential date and opted to go with someone else who caught their interest better. Then later they come back asking if they can date you now that it didn't work, even months later when you have already forgotten about them, moved on and met other guys or probably dating someone steadily. Why go back, if at the time it did not materialize, who says it'll work this time? I see as if they didn't think I was the best thing that happened to them and they blew it. I go, oh well, and turn the page and go forward.
About keeping your options open, I would say to stay open to date other guys who may have more potential to accept you, pursue you, value you, for YOU. I have made this my mantra, I would only date guys who are available, crazy for me, treat me well and show me that it's worth it to keep dating them.
I don't know.
I got a similar message from someone who probably thought he was just being honest and sincere, telling me he was going on a second date with someone, but if it didn't work out, he'd like to contact me. I was uninterested in being "put on the back burner" and contacted only if his current situation didn't work out so I said no thank you.
Having said that, I think that you should do whatever you want....it's not going to hurt anything if you go out with this guy! :)
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I agree. This is such a numbers game and sometimes it's feast or famine. Some people just aren't good with too much juggling or only have the time or desire to focus on one person at time.
He never met you so it has nothing to do with being 2nd choice. If you like the look of him and his words appeal to you then I'd give it a shot. What have you got to lose?
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