Does anybody understand GUYS?
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Does anybody understand GUYS?
| Tue, 03-07-2006 - 10:24pm |
OK, so I met this man on flutterheart.com, very attractive, groomed, gentlemanly, who took me out to dinner last week. Anyway, during dinner he proceeded to tell me that at his last job as a cop, the stress would sometimes get to be so high that he would lose all interest in sex for weeks at a time. Well, he now owns several liquor stores, and seems to be much happier, but is this just OUTRAGEOUS for him to be talking about this on our first dinner together? And should I be concerned about this reaction to stress?

I would be a little concerned. I understand that being a cop is not for everyone. I was a firefighter for 10 years and being either a cop or firefighter is a very stressful job...but tell you details about loosing his sex drive because of the stress is a little bizzare!!!!!
God Bless
Yes, that's TMI for a first meet.
Did you call him on it? or did it take you by surprise too much to know what to say?
I think it was just a way for him to bring up the subject of sex, any way possible. Not appropriate, when a man is trying to make a good impression on a woman, he is interested in.
Beware, as unsexy as this conversation sounds, I had the same thing happen with a guy on eharmony. First he talked about not leaving the toilet seat up, and then when he didn't get a reaction, how he had skin cancer taken off between his legs, then his cat who used to sleep between his legs, soon all roads of conversation led to you guessed it (between his legs).
Find it a little hard to believe yours left his "stressful" job as a police officer to operate a liquor store - "late hours, potential robberies, boozed up people going for refills" sounds pretty stressful to me.
I'd definitely "next" him.