Does this ever happen to you....
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| Fri, 03-11-2005 - 8:38am |
...on yahoo?? I have had this happen several times and I just don't get it! I have a guy wink at me and say something like "I like your smile, want to chat?" (that's the most common wink anyways). I check over his profile and most of the time if he's not a match, I don't write back at all. Then a couple weeks later I get another wink from the guy saying "Thanks, but I don't think we are a good match." or "Thanks but I just met someone" or "Thanks but im taking a break from dating" WTF? Why would they even write me back again after not hearing from me? Is this their way of getting a stab back at me? Or are they just trying to get a rise out of me? Has this happen to anyone else? Like I said, this has probably happened at least 5 times to me. Weird men!
Layx2

Layx,
As you are probably aware by now, if a guy sends you a message like "Hi, I like your smile, wanna chat?" there's a high probability he's not very serious. Perhaps he ought to just come out and say "Hi, wanna roll in the hay? My wife is out shopping."
I haven't had the particular issue you mentioned but I currently have something wierd going on with a woman that winked at me about 2 weeks ago. She's incredibly good looking and I'm sure she gets flooded with alot of e-mails and winks. But she keeps hiding her profile multiple times per day so when I log in sometimes, I don't see her. I'm thinking she may be married or she's getting alot of lewd e-mails. She has a body shot that's kind of suggestive but I won't elaborate on that other than say she's built better than Jamie Lee Curtis in her early days. Sigh......
TT
I had that happen once - and the guy in question had
Bingo! And in their defense, the system IS set up so it makes it sound like you will be a horrible person if you don't send a "courtesy" reply before deleting (and it's not at all clear that you can just hit delete and bypass that).
Sheri
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I've had the now-you-see-me-now-you-don't profiles too. It always has creeped me out. I'm also creeped out by anyone ultra good looking (red flag that the pic ain't matchin') or ultra aggressive.
Yes! That did happen to me once. This guy sent me an icebreaker and I didn't respond.
Days later, I get a 'Sorry we're not a good match' from the same guy. ?????
I thought he was trying to reject me because he didn't hear back.
That's weird.