does this guy sound egotisical or what?

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Registered: 08-22-2003
does this guy sound egotisical or what?
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Mon, 01-10-2005 - 7:50pm

He wrote a long email to me, and no profile. Shady in itself. I dont remember him writing me before, but there was probably a reason for it. Anyways, just sharing.
Men I will tell you I was turned off by his not attaching a picture with his email - its bad enough he doesnt have a profile (UH SHADY, have to say it again bc it is).

All he really says is that I'm good looking. Well of course im flattered but he didnt metion one single tidbit about my personality i showed in my write up and other writings. And the fact hes a freaking nomad?

And who cares hes played poker with celebrities. If he really read my profile he'd see that I dont care about name dropping stuff. ive met my fair share of celebs and they aren't that cool. And he would see I dont care how people look as long as they havea good heart...

So thats my critique and i guess that could help some males who come across this post =)

______________________________email to moi:

I saw your profile on match and thought I would write to you. My name is Kevin. I don't have a profile on here, but I am a single, successful, intelligent, good looking... and modest guy ;) The reason I don't have a profile: I tried it before, and got contacted by people I was not interested in... so I just decided to leave it off. I can email you some pictures... I don't know if I am a great looking guy, but I seem to attract very beautiful women in my life, so I know I am not ugly. I own a national real estate inspection company with my headquarters in Scottsdale... I am actually at my Detroit, MI office right now, will be at my Chicago office next week, and Minnesota office the week after that. winter is a great time for marketing. but so cold. can't wait to get back to Arizona.

I had a 10 year relat ionship that ended in 2003, and really have really only dated one girl since. drowning myself in building my business some more. I believe in enjoying life while helping (not hurting) others along the way. I also play poker professionally besides running my business... has been pretty cool because I have been able to meet some really interesting people from poker... for example... in the past year I have played with Ben Affleck, Leonardo Dicaprio, Toby McGuire, James Woods, Jack Black (Shallow Hal), Alex Rodriguez... and some others... so keeps life interesting.

I spend a month at a time often at my San Jose office... will be there for February... maybe I can treat you to a nice lunch then so we can meet in person?

Oh well, I really think you are a knockout and loved your profile. I tried writing once before, but didn't hear back :( I would like to get to know you better. I would be glad to email you some pictures... just ask ;)... I am 6'3 210 lbs. with brown hair and hazel eyes. I have been pretty detailed to let you know a little about me, but feel free to ask any questions, and PLEASE write me back... or I will cry ;)

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 7:53pm

Oh, GAG me! The guy is clueless and completely full of himself.

Sheri

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Registered: 07-24-2004
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 7:59pm

A lot of things cross my mind when I read his email.

Linda
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Registered: 11-18-2003
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 8:29pm
Yeah. It sounds shady. He's trying too hard to impress and he's got same lame excuse for not posting

 

 

 

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Registered: 08-22-2003
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 8:42pm

thanks all. its just disgusting when I can see right thru these guys. I feel badly for the women who believe it. and I would've fallen for his load of crap and met up awhile bcak, thikning wow hes really into me. When in reality hes so damn full of himself, he has to seek attn from women to validate his insecurities. YUCK

Ok I know I"m mean thinking this, but I figured I could play with him a bit and bait him. But then thats bad karma for me. At the same time, I know hes prolly hurt all these poor women in th epast and maybe right now...

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Registered: 09-18-2004
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 8:58pm

sounds like he is looking to impress and for sex.

why not post his profile/pics cuz he is all over the place.. he is being mysterious for a reason..

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Registered: 12-29-2004
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 11:32pm

All he is proud of is playing poker w/ celebs?? How pathetic. I wouldn't waste my time talking w/ this loser if I were you. If you still want to, just tell him to cry.

BTW, anyone saw the first episode of Bachelorette(Meredith)? There was a dark, good looking loser telling to the camera that she wiykd pick him up "because I'm so gorgerous." He was the first one to go, of course.

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Mon, 01-10-2005 - 11:39pm
I read that and at first when he was going on about living in Scottsdale and traveling the country I was like "but doesn't surfer life in San Francisco?!?!" and then put it together that he probably contacts women in all the cities he travels to so as to have a "girl in every port". Pretty easy when you travel all the time and only spend a month at a time in one place. The name dropping got me too. What a schmuck!

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Registered: 12-10-2004
Tue, 01-11-2005 - 1:43am
I read this, and I'm embarrassed to be a male. What a jacka**.
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Tue, 01-11-2005 - 2:20am

He's so contradictory, it's hilarious. Thankfully, he's put enough work into this email that you don't have to do much of any sifting!

I love how he mentions his "modesty", then goes on in detail to drop an assortment of names, makes a point of telling you where his offices are located, and that he's had little trouble keeping a beautiful gal on his arm.

I'd go with my gut on this one :) Sounds like a winner!

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Tue, 01-11-2005 - 9:17am

Ewwww!!! Creepola...He has an ego as big as a house. The no profile thing would make me highly suspicious as well. There are some real "weiners" out there!!!

Claribeth

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