Does he really like me?

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Registered: 05-27-2005
Does he really like me?
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Wed, 08-10-2005 - 7:54pm
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Edited 8/11/2005 7:34 am ET ET by dream_angel2005
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 8:08pm

Ok...you've been posting on this board for a while, so you KNOW what I'm going to say, right ;-)????

He doesn't KNOW you yet, how can he LIKE you or not like you??? All he knows of you is your profile and what you've talked about in your IMs.

As to whether he's interested in meeting to SEE if he likes you ;-), that remains to be seen. In your shoes, I would say something, the next time you IM, along the lines of, "I'm still interested in meeting you...let me know if you'd still like to do so", and then see where it goes from there. If he still is ambivalent about it, then I'd say "ok, let me know if and when you decide you'd like to meet".

Sheri

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Registered: 09-15-2003
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 8:54pm

I'm in complete agreement with Sheri.

Also, if you two decide to meet- why not meet half way? That way neither person has to drive 2 hours to a meet that may fizzle.

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Registered: 07-03-2004
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 9:20pm

Do you want to im indefinitely or do you want to date??? Don't get sucked in by a slow-poke, they are everywhere: chat, chat, chat and then when you try to plan a meeting they usually ghost. Why? Because they are only interested in chatting, not meeting.

You need to be proactive with Lover Boy, dream_angel. Tell him you are interested in meeting and to let you know when he's available. If he doesn't give you that information in his next message, give him one more chance and then drop him if he still avoids committing.

OLD 101, ladies!

amjay

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Registered: 03-17-2005
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 10:29pm
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