Does it ever make you feel better....
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Does it ever make you feel better....
| Fri, 06-03-2005 - 9:47am |
Does it ever make you feel better to send a 'not-so-nice' email to someone you've been out with, thought liked you, got along with, talked about doing things together, great chemistry...but then you never heard from them??!! I know it's just disappointment talking..but I haven't heard from the guy I spent the day with Monday. We had such a great time! I don't get it. I sent him a short thank you email Tuesday morning but never heard back from him. I've been drafting an email to him that I might send next week if I don't hear from him. My message basically says that I'm disappointed I haven't heard from him, looked forward to seeing him again, thought he was a nice guy, etc. I just really hate this whole thing. I don't know if I'll actually send it, but it helps to get it out and beats me crying over him!!

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I guess my thinking is (how do I put this) that maybe we let people get away with disappearing, giving them the impression that it's okay to do that by saying nothing. In my little naive brain I think maybe if we let the other person know that we don't appreciate it then maybe they'll treat the next person better. (I know, I live in a fantasy world!!)...
You're not naive, nor is your brain "little..." You are human! You care about people and that's something to be proud of. I used to think that maybe the guys would change if I emailed them and not let them get away with it... but it doesn't seem to work. Change only happens if they want to change.
I'm proud of you for the way you acted! :)
Kerry
If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll keep getting what you're getting... -- Les Brown
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