Does this really work

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Registered: 02-22-2005
Does this really work
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Sat, 05-07-2005 - 7:58am
Hi, I'm interested in trying this but not sure where to go or what to do. I've signed up to a couple of online dating sites but nothing comes of them. They send me pics of people who are most suitable to me but none of them are even close to what I want. I was married to a man for 14 years who I was not attracted to and I won't be with another person who I am not attracted to. So where do I begin?
Thanks,
LilRocket
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Registered: 05-16-2004
Sat, 05-07-2005 - 8:23am

I do not think there's a better resource online than this:

http://cl-jhoover21-ivil.tripod.com/id24.html

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 05-07-2005 - 11:40am

Hi there, in addition to reading the website as LG has suggested, I have a couple ideas:

1. Rather than passively waiting for matches, do searches and find men you DO consider attractive and wink at them.

2. If you're on the fence about someone from their picture, but their profile otherwise interests you, I'd contact them. My experience has been that more often than not, people look better in person than in their pictures (although I know not everyone on this board has had this experience), as there's no way that a picture can convey a person's "live" energy. So take a chance with a few guys who are "on the cusp" so to speak.

Sheri