Doesn't call when he says he will

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Registered: 07-31-2006
Doesn't call when he says he will
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Fri, 03-17-2006 - 5:52am

Hi,


Been out on two short meets with a guy. He called last Sat. evening and left a message that he had fun and would like to see me again and asked me to call him. I called him back. He said he was just seated for dinner (told me

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-31-2006
Sat, 03-18-2006 - 7:54am

Right. He didn't say "I'll call you" or I'll call you later". If so, a call on Thurs. wouldn't bother me. He was very specific...."I'll call you tomorrow".

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Registered: 03-18-2005
Sat, 03-18-2006 - 9:21am

He didn't say "I'll call you" or I'll call you later". If so, a call on Thurs. wouldn't bother me. He was very specific...."I'll call you tomorrow".

 
 
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Registered: 04-02-2004
Sat, 03-18-2006 - 10:05am

I cannot STAND when someone says they will call tomorrow, or will call back in a few minutes, or things like that. In fact, it just happened to me last night. Was talking to a guy from OLD, and he was calling in. I answered and asked him if I could call him back in a few minutes. He said he was about to get in the shower (not sure why he bothered to call at all then), but would call when he got out. No call. Mind you, that was our first phone conversation. So now this is my impression of him...And for me, I just don't have tolerance for that. If a guy can't do something as minor as call you back when he says he's going to (i.e., when he gets out of the shower), can you count on him when he says he's going to pick you up at a certain time for a date? And it can only get worse from there. So I think I will probably harrass him politely and give him a chance to try again. And if he flunks....NEXT!

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