Don't know what to do???

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Registered: 06-17-2011
Don't know what to do???
Mon, 09-17-2012 - 7:52pm

I met a nice guy from match on Friday night.  His profile said that he was 47 & was looking for a lasting relationship and was Not sure about kids.  2 days later, his profile has changed to definitely wanting kids and looking for a lasting relationship leading to marriage and children and he is looking for a woman between the ages of 36 -52.  How does a man change his profile so drastically in 2 days? 

We never discussed marriage, divorce, kids or remarrying during our date on Friday.  He wote me on Saturday saying that he had a really nice time and would like to see me again.  I was going to respond that I would like to see him too but I noticed his profile change and the truth of the matter is that I do not want to remarry and I do not wants kids.  I guess I am just confused about the sudden change and how he could expect a woman that is between the ages of 45 -52 would or could have a child?  I don't know if I should respond to him and go out again with him to try to figure him out or just move on.  Help!!

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Registered: 02-23-2010
Mon, 09-17-2012 - 9:08pm
Only if you want to date him again should you open up about his profile changes. I think he must has seen a profile of a woman who wanted marriage and children so he adapted to fit.

If you don't want to conti ur seeing him just move on.

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Registered: 06-07-2004
Tue, 09-18-2012 - 3:51pm
looks like he is trying to change himself to fit other women instead of finding a women who is compatible with him the way he is.
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Registered: 10-20-2012
Sat, 10-20-2012 - 6:11pm

People often lie about their true intentions on dating sites...
I think there's no problem to ask him about it on your next date...