Don't think I can do it...

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Registered: 04-09-2008
Don't think I can do it...
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Sun, 01-07-2007 - 9:01pm

I'm so bummed...I don't know if I can do LDR.

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Registered: 11-04-2006
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 11:32am

OY VEY! is all I can think of to say... I just hate all of the emotional turmoil that goes along with something like a LDR...but you can do it...its just all of the 'unknown' and not really knowing if their heart is in the same place yours is...

Take is slow...Baby steps Devorah...I know its easier said than done - but you will feel better about it and have at least a small sense of control over the situation. If you are feeling uneasy about it all - speak up and tell him you have nothing to lose. I know that I am not a very confrontational person - so it is difficult for me at times...but by being LD it is easier.

Take a deep breath, hold on and everything will be okay...

Cheers
Sarah

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Registered: 09-27-2004
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 12:43pm
You do have a point there. I think that when a guy really wants a relationship and sees you as a serious prospect you never really doubt his intentions because he lets you know pretty quickly, at least from my experiences it has been like that. Very good insight on your part. Sometimes you dont' know though and who knows this could work between the 2 if they keep communicating about where they are at etc etc. I do hope things work out for you chan, I know you were so happy over the time you spent together and if you guys have a good friendship then it could be a definate possibility.
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Mon, 01-08-2007 - 1:09pm

I second that Oy Vey followed by a loooong sigh! :)

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Mon, 01-08-2007 - 1:59pm

He said he "didn't want to pressure" me, which is funny because I was thinking the same thing about him this week

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Registered: 04-09-2008
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 2:17pm

Natalieshay and small peanut, I agree with everything you both said. Natalie, you're so right in your whole analysis!--As blunt and no frills as it was--not to mention, even directed at another poster.

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Mon, 01-08-2007 - 2:28pm
Thanks Elsa, I appreciate your comments and
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Mon, 01-08-2007 - 2:43pm

Hey Stacey, I was actually thinking of you when I wrote my original post since I know you are starting somewhat of an LDR. Hopefully now I'll

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