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| Tue, 10-18-2005 - 11:43am |
Hi. Has anyone used this service? If so, what where the people like?
Thanks,
Fan
| Tue, 10-18-2005 - 11:43am |
Hi. Has anyone used this service? If so, what where the people like?
Thanks,
Fan
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I think looks/personality is an extremely complicated attraction factor. A guy could have a great personality, but if you are sickened by the thought of kissing him, then chances are not good that it will work out. Likewise, when it's the other way around. Guy #2 was extremely good looking to me, but he had the Jekyl/Hyde personality attached to the great looks. No matter how great they look, no one can live with that.
While looks aren't everything, that initial physical attraction does play a large role in the dating process. Anyone who claims that it doesn't matter what someone looks like is probably not being truthful. I personally would not be attracted to a very overweight guy. Likewise, little skinny men are a complete turn off for me as well. I will think twice about going out with a short little guy (read my Little Man's Syndrome thread). I'm not real thin myself, but I do try to watch my weight. All I can do is change what I can about myself that I'm unhappy with. If it means losing weight, I get back with the program. However, it's important for me to be happy with myself and not be doing it for someone else.
I think it's a rip-off, in fact I've heard it called E-rip off. After paying their exhorbitant fee, they produced a small handful of "matches", all of whom were substantially older than me, and none of whom I found attractive. Also, I don't like that you have to rely on them to match you...you can't look through their data base.
rip off.
There's nothing about myself I would change, I love my big, beautiful bod. It's my bread and buttter. I'm a part time free lance plus size model, so I have to be careful not to lose or gain weight. There is no way I would ever lose weight anyway, if men have a problem with it than tough sh--.
A few ladies here are talking about joining Match, be careful my all time worst experiences were with Match. The men on there for the most part were very mean spirited
and rude, rude, rude.
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