EMOTIONAL MAN/SHALLOW ME

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Registered: 09-16-2005
EMOTIONAL MAN/SHALLOW ME
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Fri, 12-30-2005 - 2:21am
SRY BUT THE FONT IS SMALL AND I DONT HAVE MY GLASSES YET SO MUST USE CAPS
21 F MI AND 22 M MI
I HAVE BEEN TALKING TO THIS GUY FOR 2MONTHS NOW AND ITS NOT A DATING THING JUST SOMEONE TO CHAT WITH BETWEEN CLASS AND AFTER WORK. I BELIEVE IM SHALLOW WELL I NO I AM, I LIKE ONLINE DATING BECAUSE SIGHT UNSEEN BUT USUALLY WHEN I SEE THE PICS I RUN, BUT NEVER HAD THE BRAVERY TO MEET SOMEONE IN PERSON. THIS GUY THAT I AM TALKING TO NOW DOESNT HAVE A PIC AND I LIKE HIS PERSONALITY SO MUCH I RATHER NOT SEE. HE HAS DESCRIBED HIMSELF TO ME AND HES SKINNY, I HAVE DATED SKINNY GUYS BUT SOMETIMES PUSH THEM INTO WEIGHT LIFTING AND HAVE BEEN KNOWN TO CHANGE THERE APPEARS TO WHAT I SEE FIT. THE GUY IM TALKING TO NOW HIS A SHY, HOPELESS ROMANTIC, EMOTIONAL AND WORKS TOO MUCH TO FIND A GIRLFRIEND SO HE TURNS TO ONLINE DATING. WE HAVE TALKED ON THE PHONE AND BUT PICS HAVENT BEEN TRADED. HE USE TO DRINK EVERYDAY AFTER WORK AND I STOPPED THAT. HE CRYS HOW LONELY HE IS WHEN HE IS DRUNK AND HOW HE JUST WANTS SOMEONE FOR THE HOLIDAYS.
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Registered: 07-03-2004
Fri, 12-30-2005 - 9:29am
So what's your question?
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Registered: 05-31-2005
Fri, 12-30-2005 - 9:47am

Hi and welcome to the board!


I'm not sure what you're asking here, but there's a few things that stuck out in your post. From your post, it seems that you work to change men if they don't meet exactly what you want. That's a very dangerous stance to take on many levels.


Also, it sounds like this guy is too clingy, so I'm not sure why you want to be involved with him.


If you could clarify what it is your asking, I'm sure we could help.



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Registered: 06-02-2005
Fri, 12-30-2005 - 10:09am

>From your post, it seems that you work to
>change men if they don't meet exactly what
>you want. That's a very dangerous stance to
>take on many levels.

True.