Ending and beginning...

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Ending and beginning...
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Mon, 02-21-2005 - 3:33pm
Well, due to the fact that he had emailed me several times and called last night mentioning getting together again, I sent an email today to "not really over my ex" guy from last Wed. I told him that I am looking for a relationship and I don't see that happening with him for several reasons : distance (he's 3 hr away), his feelings for his ex and religious beliefs (he's catholic, I'm not). But, being the nice person I am, I told him that he's a great guy, sweet and thoughtful but we really didn't have much in common to talk about. We had only gone out twice but I really didn't see anything more happening (he was a great kisser though!!!LOL)
And, I had a first meet with a new guy Saturday at Starbucks. He lives in my town which is a plus right there. We got along really well and talked about getting together again. We've emailed several times since then. So, we'll see. Definitely cute, too! He does seem hesitate to start a relationship (he's been divorced for 2 yrs and just got out of a transitional relationship in Nov.) but welcomes friendship and good conversation. Who knows.
Hope all is going well with everybody here today.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2003
Mon, 02-21-2005 - 4:49pm
Hey. Sorry you had to end things with "not over his ex" guy. But you did the right thing. It's not easy to let go of someone you like even when you know it's the best thing to do. Glad to hear though that you've had another successful first meet. Let's just hope that he firms up plans for a second date! :)