Ex Bf wants Sex with BEnefits

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2004
Ex Bf wants Sex with BEnefits
4
Fri, 09-22-2006 - 9:58pm

got romantic with a guy from a dating site, things felt different after meeting, we had conflicts on and off, and finally I gave him options and he said he wantedt to a friendship that led to physical too and that he hasn't thought about searching for the one because he's been so busy with work. This guy used to be sooo adoring and chased after me so I'm confused.

he contacted my dating profile on february 14, 2005, he got me over my ex bf and I started to have feelings for him (he had feelings for me before I did he claims) august 2005, we met november 2005 and have only met in person at most four times. wE Live 50 miles apart.

a) did he never love me, b) he no longer loves me

AND ALSO DO YOU THINK being friends will
a) potentially lead us back to romance or b) it's friendship forever.

Edited 9/22/2006 10:52 pm ET by cynnovel




Edited 9/22/2006 10:52 pm ET by cynnovel
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2003
Sat, 09-23-2006 - 1:01am
oh uh! I thought SEX is the BENEFITS :~P
next him now not tomorrow and run for the hills! he lives 50 miles from you and you only met 4 times! this guy is soo not interested. Please do yourself a favor and check the next guy on your dating site. I m sure he is more worth it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2004
Sat, 09-23-2006 - 1:54pm
He showed interest before with daily contact, calling my Princess, Sunshine, and "I miss you's", "I love you's", etc. He works every day, long hours as the head person in his office.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2005
Sat, 09-23-2006 - 2:03pm

Keep in mind that actions speak louder than words... it's very easy to say I love you, but has he shown it? It doesn't sound like it.


I wouldn't waste your time on this guy. There are so many out there that will treat you the way you deserve.


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-16-2006
Sun, 09-24-2006 - 2:53pm
IMO, anyone that is giving you those lines before you even know each other well is blowing smoke and telling you what you want to hear in order to get something.
heather 5-18-10