Hey, just because you aren't exclusive doesn't mean you have to date others. Nor does exclusivity mean life time committment. It can also just be about time management, or simplifying your life, or whatever.
I consider myself exclusive with Mr. Write. I would be surprised if he didn't feel the same way, but after 2 dates I can't ask him for more. NOr do I assume we are in it for the long haul. I just don't want to complicate my life. KWIM? And I don't have immediate plans for sex with him, although the subject did come up and we both agree we are interested in giving that a shot without implications of a Long Term R.
I feel like I missed part of your conversation on this subject. Were either of you suggesting to the other that you become exclusive or committed in some other way? (face it, there are a lot of shades of gray here!)
Thank you Judy! I am very happy with where things are right now. We are planning a weekend away to either NYC or to a bed & breakfast up north. Sounds FUN!
Kudos for figuring out your comfort zone with Carlos. One day at a time is my motto. It seems we each have to figure out what we're ready for on a guy by guy basis. LOL. I keep trying to take it slow, date more than one guy at a time, but like SoooBig, it's just not working for me, always slide into exclusivity (is that even a word?) quickly. I know that it is partly because of the sex issue, surprised myself that I crossed that line with my current BF as quickly as I did. The trick is to not let ones self get too wrapped up in future expectations. I, for one, will be living vicariously through your adventure with juggling Carlos and that young guy. BTW my Bday is next month, too. 46 is looming, can't be much different than 45.
Hey Girls (Well, & boys ...) May as well share what I have on the Moms dating board - here are some of the details of what sort of converstatoins have gone on with us:
I just dont know what will happen here. On one hand, his now
Sounds like things with Carlos are working out well for you, I'm so happy for you! I believe what was meant to be will happen.
You are beautiful, cool, calm, collected and have a great outlook on life. Your posts have been a great inspiration to me. Thanks!
Can you tell me how you got your pics posted on your messages? Thanks!
Go Girl!
Hey, just because you aren't exclusive doesn't mean you have to date others. Nor does exclusivity mean life time committment. It can also just be about time management, or simplifying your life, or whatever.
I consider myself exclusive with Mr. Write. I would be surprised if he didn't feel the same way, but after 2 dates I can't ask him for more. NOr do I assume we are in it for the long haul. I just don't want to complicate my life. KWIM? And I don't have immediate plans for sex with him, although the subject did come up and we both agree we are interested in giving that a shot without implications of a Long Term R.
I feel like I missed part of your conversation on this subject. Were either of you suggesting to the other that you become exclusive or committed in some other way? (face it, there are a lot of shades of gray here!)
Thank you Judy! I am very happy with where things are right now. We are planning a weekend away to either NYC or to a bed & breakfast up north. Sounds FUN!
How I did my pictures ... oh, it wasnt EASY!
Well, I dont "have" to date others, but what else does exclusivity mean?
Hey Girls (Well, & boys ...) May as well share what I have on the Moms dating board - here are some of the details of what sort of converstatoins have gone on with us:
I just dont know what will happen here. On one hand, his now