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|Mon, 10-29-2012 - 11:51pm|
So I have a bit of a question for all of you.....
I posted a profile on this dating site but never subscribed for a membership. It was a small site and there was really only one person on there that I was interested in. The "romantic" in me got too practical thinking that I didn't want to waste the money to message just one guy. I kind of forgot all about this for a few months, only to get an email the other day for a free 3 day trial membership. Since I recently got out of a relationship, I was like "what the heck" and I registered, only to find that the only guy that I was interested in before had messaged me-- 6 months ago. From the looks of his profile it looks like he hasn't logged on in quite a while and probably doesn't have a membership anymore. I responded to his message just in case and gave him my email because I wasn't planning on lasting longer than the free trial.
My curiosity got the best of me though and by some weird crazy luck, I was able to find him on facebook. Would it be weird of me to message him? Of course, I originally thought-- no way! Total psycho stalker move. But then another part of me is thinking-- why not? Nothing ventured, nothing gained. I know it's been a while. And who knows, he could be in a relationship or he could have moved. But his profile showed potential and when I saw his message, I was really bummed that I missed that opportunity.
So tell me people of ivillage-- would you facebook message or not? And if you would-- how do you not sound like a super stalker??