Female advice needed

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Registered: 03-09-2008
Female advice needed
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 8:45pm


I've been contacted on about 4-5


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Registered: 09-02-2008
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 10:27pm

Yes, I think you are reading too much into this.

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Registered: 03-03-2004
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 11:03pm
I think people go through phases and stages of on-line dating, like anything else.
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Registered: 02-01-2005
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 11:16pm

Yes, you're reading too much into it.

Personally, I think people waste WAY too much time on email before meeting. My boyfriend and I only emailed for three days and talked for a month on the phone before meeting, and both thought that was entirely too long, but he was TDY so we didn't have a choice. OLD is for meeting people, not making pen pals.

I'd be more concerned that she is (apparently) sending you more emails than you're sending her.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 06-24-2009 - 1:43am

Oh for heaven's sake.

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Registered: 03-09-2008
Wed, 06-24-2009 - 11:22am
Ok, ok, so I am probably reading too much into the situation.
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Registered: 10-17-2002
Wed, 06-24-2009 - 2:34pm

Yes, you are reading too much into it but honestly, it sounds like your interest is mediocre at best if you weren't responding to her emails in a timely manner and are finding things wrong or want to stop communicating with her for what is a very reasonable request.

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Registered: 01-26-2005
Wed, 06-24-2009 - 4:04pm
She sounds too pushy, and my gut says she'd be that way about a lot more than this.


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Registered: 06-09-2008
Thu, 06-25-2009 - 2:23pm
She sounds rather pushy, and if she cant respect your boundries on the internet...can she IRL????


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Registered: 02-10-2004
Fri, 06-26-2009 - 7:11pm

Any girl that sends a guy multiple emails without waiting for

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Registered: 10-02-2003
Sat, 06-27-2009 - 4:59pm

Wait, you think this gal is PUSHY?