I've been contacted on about 4-5
Yes, I think you are reading too much into this.
Yes, you're reading too much into it.
Personally, I think people waste WAY too much time on email before meeting. My boyfriend and I only emailed for three days and talked for a month on the phone before meeting, and both thought that was entirely too long, but he was TDY so we didn't have a choice. OLD is for meeting people, not making pen pals.
I'd be more concerned that she is (apparently) sending you more emails than you're sending her.
Oh for heaven's sake.
Yes, you are reading too much into it but honestly, it sounds like your interest is mediocre at best if you weren't responding to her emails in a timely manner and are finding things wrong or want to stop communicating with her for what is a very reasonable request.
Any girl that sends a guy multiple emails without waiting for
Wait, you think this gal is PUSHY?