Figuring out what I want-An update...

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Figuring out what I want-An update...
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Tue, 11-15-2005 - 10:41am

Hey All You Friendly Fellow OLD Ladies,

:)))
Ya know....knowing what I want is really one of the hardest parts to figure out! LOL.
I am complex. I was recently told that by my latest OLD date. He is right.

I met this guy last Monday. We were seeing each other almost everyday (including several overnights) for a week! But I started to feel smothered and not so *free* really fast. He asked me to pull my profiles and I did. ACK! Well, now I am trying to reverse some of that and cool it down! Nice guy but he has a big bag of baggage and I am a little scared of some of it. We will see what happens...but I want more freedom. It is ridiculous after only a week!.....

Sara

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-20-2001
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 5:08pm
I'm also a one-man type of woman, and I also understand sexual frustration, as well as wanting someone I can't have. For a lot of women, it ups the stakes though after you sleep with them. Maybe some women can do that without any emotional attachments, however, I am not one of them; my emotions get the best of me. I just can't handle it otherwise. :0
Keep us posted on what happens with this guy.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2005
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 7:26pm
What happened to working on yourself?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-28-2003
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 8:07pm
Nothing. I am working on myself, thanks....
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2005
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 8:16pm
When do you have time? You are jumping from one guy to the next and you admit that neither are good for you. Don't you want better for yourself? I just hope and pray you don't get seriously hurt. I really do.
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 8:26pm

I am not afraid....but thanks. I am getting a lot of good things from the men I am dating. I may not talk about all the good I get, but it is there....unspoken. I am not afraid of getting hurt. If I get hurt, I am a big girl, and I can deal with it. All things in life are learning experiences. We learn everyday. I am working on me.

Sara

 

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