Finally heard from him...
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| Fri, 03-18-2005 - 5:58pm |
I posted the other day about the "busy, busy, busy" guy, and how I hadn't heard from him in almost 2 weeks, well, he sent me an email as if nothing had happenned! In it, he said he was on the way back from a trip, and would I call him "asap"! I was kinda surprised, but didn't get the message until late, and called the next morning. We had a pleasant conversation, and I asked in a casual way, why he hadn't responded to my email, his response was..."oh I did"!! Now, COME ON! He HAD NOT! And I jokingly said so. His comment was.."well, I'll do better, but I've been traveling a lot". So, I, fool as ever suggested getting together that day and naturally, he was "too busy" to do so - just got back in town, had a million things to do, etc. I'm thinking, OK, then why did you ask me to call? But instead, I said, "fine, let me know when you want to get together".
I honestly can not figure out what is UP with him! I DID and do like him, would like to get to know him better, but I WILL NOT email, or call AGAIN! I only called in response to his request. But tell me...I honestly feel like calling him up and saying.."Hey, I like you, do you like me, or what?" "Why are you acting like you don't"? "If you don't, then why not just go away?" It's like being in the 7th Grade!! Help!
Roxy

It's sounds like he is *somewhat* interested, but not *very* interested. I'd write him off, mentally, but if he ends up calling you and asking you out at some point, you can decide then if you want to go out with him again.
Sheri
You want help? Do what LG said and move on to NEXT.
This guy is a type that I have seen before. A good friend of mine used to be like this. He liked having women on strings, as many as possible. Call them out of the blue, make them feel special, but when it comes time to actually pin down any real plans... nope, not happening.
You're feeling all crazy and stuff, frustrated, confused, etc. Why would you want to continue that? MOVE ON TO NEXT! :) This guy doesn't deserve the time of day.
Well said! I guess I kinda needed "reinforcement" or something!
Roxy
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Out of curiosity, foxy, why didn't you ask what that message was about?
LG-
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