Before the first date concerns

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-23-2012
Before the first date concerns
Fri, 03-23-2012 - 10:50am
Hi everyone. I am new and have a question on what you would do/think.

I met a guy online on Tuesady. We chatted for 5 hours that night and then pretty much all the next day. On Wed morning, he asked me out for Friday for drinks after he gets out of work. I accepted and was excited. Come Thu, we chatted briefly in the morn and then I heard nothing from him until that night when I initiated a chat. I had even given him my number and told him he could call or text and he never did It's now Fri morn and not a peep out of him.

At what point do I contact him, if at all??
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2010
Sun, 03-25-2012 - 8:17am
How did this work out?? Did you go out with him??

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Fri, 03-23-2012 - 1:16pm

Do you know when and where to meet?


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-23-2012
Fri, 03-23-2012 - 12:03pm
I would agree about the fact that he is at work but the day Wednesday of him msging me all day, he was at work.
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Registered: 06-09-2009
Fri, 03-23-2012 - 11:57am

Hey there. Sounds like you two have had some great conversations! That's great! I wouldn't worry too much about not hearing from him during the day yesterday. Wouldn't he have been at work? If I were you I would wait for him to contact you next. He's got your number and if he's still interested in meeting tonigt then he'll get a hold of you. You don't want to seem over-eager, you know what I mean?