first date dinner and movie?
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first date dinner and movie?
| Tue, 01-17-2006 - 10:55pm |
just curious to see how you all feel about doing a dinner and a movie on a first meet.
I m supposed to meet this guy on Friday. We did email for couple of days then we spoke once on the phone and then agreed to meet. I ve met many guys so i m not nervous about it but never done dinner on a first meet. I feel it is better to go for a drink so if one of us wanted to leave earlier it is possible but with a dinner and a movie planned I guess there is no exit left if we dont like each other?!
Do you normally go for dinner on a first date? what would you do if you did not like the person 's company?
thnx

My first meets are usually coffee, drinks, or lunch - in that order. Coffee and drinks are very casual and easy to bail if needed, but also create a more relaxed atmosphere for talking. Lunch is good because you have the excuse that you need to get back to work - and, if it's really bad, you can say you need to run an errand and cut it short.
I've never done dinner on a first meet. I had one guy press me to have dinner at a super swanky place, and I just couldn't do it because I think it's too much pressure with a total stranger.
AJ, enjoying life with C.